Accepting Sadism: Separating Hurt & Harm
Separating hurt and harm is crucial to understanding sadism. If you're curious about how sadism works, or if you're struggling to reconcile your own sadistic inclinations, have a read.
Tag: Sadism
Making Him Ask for Punishment
Here’s a psychological experiment from fairly early on in our dynamic. ‘Turn your head,’ I said. He stared at me, side eyed and unmoving. I eyed him with mounting disapproval.…
On Sadism: The Smile
There is a smile I smile whenever I am in a sadistic vein. I can’t help it. It’s entirely involuntary. I can just feel my face doing it. I have…
Why I Dislike The ‘Narrative of Punishment’
Amongst the huge volume of badly written, presumptuous mental bio-hazards which clog my inbox, ‘punish me, Mistress‘ is a phrase which crops up exceedingly often. Every time I open a…
Why A Sadist Won’t ‘Take It Out’ On You
If I happened to mention I am having a bad day in the course of conversation with a potential sub, I can usually expect something along the lines of ‘so…