Why ‘Force Me To Submit’ Can Be A Red Flag
‘I need someone to force me to submit’ is yet another sentiment which shows up in my inbox surprisingly often. It has rubbed me the
September 19, 2021
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The Difference Between ‘Kink’ and ‘Fetish’
The words ‘kink’ and ‘fetish’ are often used synonymously. They are however quite distinct. To give you the Cliff Notes – most kinks aren’t fetishes,
August 27, 2021
Why A Sub’s Inexperience Can Be a Red Flag
Inexperienced subs often cite said inexperience as the most significant barrier to finding a dominant. I’ve heard subs compare it to the Catch 22 posed
August 22, 2021
The Sub / Domme Ratio
‘The ratio’ of dommes to subs is a myth. So, why do so many male subs claim that finding a domme is impossible?
July 8, 2021
‘What appeals to you about being a domme?’
As far as my frequently occurring frustrations go, this one is both particularly frequent and frustrating. Why? Well…
June 9, 2021
Defining 24/7 and TPE
I would describe my dynamic as 24/7 TPE. This is often misunderstood, so I thought I’d attempt a definition. First things first, it is worth
June 7, 2021
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