Sunday Afternoon Reading: A Snapshot of Our Dynamic
I often get asked what a 24/7 TPE dynamic looks like. While there are, of course, times I subject my sub to various brilliantly sadistic
May 19, 2022
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RIP ‘Gentle Femdom’, An Outdated Term
Let me just preface this by saying, I am not out to criticise anybody who identifies with the GFD label in any way. I’m here
February 10, 2022
Appearance Is Not The Foundation of Female Dominance
‘You want me, but you can’t have me. You’re not worthy,’ whispers the latex-clad dominatrix stereotype with her over-lined red lips. Her power stems in
November 13, 2021
Why ‘Force Me To Submit’ Can Be A Red Flag
‘I need someone to force me to submit’ is yet another sentiment which shows up in my inbox surprisingly often. It has rubbed me the
September 19, 2021
The Difference Between ‘Kink’ and ‘Fetish’
The words ‘kink’ and ‘fetish’ are often used synonymously. They are however quite distinct. To give you the Cliff Notes – most kinks aren’t fetishes,
August 27, 2021
Why A Sub’s Inexperience Can Be a Red Flag
Inexperienced subs often cite said inexperience as the most significant barrier to finding a dominant. I’ve heard subs compare it to the Catch 22 posed
August 22, 2021
The Sub / Domme Ratio
‘The ratio’ of dommes to subs is a myth. So, why do so many male subs claim that finding a domme is impossible?
July 8, 2021
‘What appeals to you about being a domme?’
As far as my frequently occurring frustrations go, this one is both particularly frequent and frustrating. Why? Well…
June 9, 2021
Defining 24/7 and TPE
I would describe my dynamic as 24/7 TPE. This is often misunderstood, so I thought I’d attempt a definition. First things first, it is worth
June 7, 2021
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