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Thoughts of a Lifestyle Domme

I'm a lifestyle domme. These are my thoughts. /fin

Okay, but somewhat more seriously, dominance has been a part of me for as long as I can remember. Long before I really knew what it was. I pursued D/s as soon as I could and now have a 24/7 TPE dynamic . Over the years, I've written articles, guides, created resources and other bits and put them in one place. And you've found it.

Have a browse, have a read and do have fun.

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Effective Punishment for Subs: A Comprehensive Guide for D/s Dynamics

August 7, 2023

A comprehensive guide which covers all the nuances of punishment for subs: from understanding the role of punishment to a step-by-step on how to set effective protocol, this guide covers [...]

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Punishment vs Funishment – An Important Distinction

July 24, 2023

Distinguishing punishment vs funishment is not just semantics. It's central to clear communication on a topic which is the backbone of power exchange dynamics.

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Jonah Hill, Boundaries, and ‘Being Controlling’ in a D/s Context

July 10, 2023

A quick topical write up of a conversation I had with a friend about Jonah Hill, boundaries and what it means to be controlling.

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Snapshot of My Dynamic: Latex Shopping

July 8, 2023

A snapshot of my dynamic: our little shopping trip to a Soho latex store, the purchase of a catsuit, and my thoughts on latex.

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Snapshot of My Dynamic: Sunday Afternoon Reading

May 19, 2022

I often get asked what a 24/7 TPE dynamic looks like. While there are, of course, times I subject my sub to various brilliantly sadistic torments, the majority of time [...]

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RIP ‘Gentle Femdom’, An Outdated Term

February 10, 2022

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Appearance Is Not The Foundation of Female Dominance

November 13, 2021

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