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This is something I have been wanting to get a proper article together on for a while and will probably write up properly at some point, but in the meanwhile,…

I have taken a break from posting for a couple of years, although not from writing itself. I have folders and notebooks full of sketches of thoughts, tangled bits and…

A comprehensive guide to effective punishments for subs: from exploring the role of submissive punishment to a step-by-step on how to set effective protocol, this guide covers all the bases.

Welcome to E-Lust – a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers maintenance spanking, fucking machines…

A quick guide, covering the FAQs around maintenance spanking in D/s dynamics, including protocols, intensity levels, how to distinguish maintenance and punishment discipline and practical troubleshooting.

This month’s E-Lust covers why male chastity is not a femdom essential, male multiple orgasms and Bloom's AI. Have a browse and see what takes your fancy.

Chastity is often framed as a must-have in femdom dynamics. Have a read and delve into why male chastity really isn't a femdom essential.

Welcome to E-Lust – a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers punishment, how to approach…

Distinguishing punishment vs funishment is not just semantics. It's central to clear communication on a topic which is the backbone of power exchange dynamics.

A quick overview of the common red flags which mean the 'online dom' you're talking to is a scammer or a catfish. Stay informed and stay safe!