How To Set Effective Protocol in a 24/7 Dynamic
A pragmatic guide on crafting life-proof protocol - whether you're a newcomer or an experienced pro, these tips should help you design protocol which sticks!
E-Lust 161 – Lifestyle D/s, Chastity and Adventures in Writing
Dive into a diverse set of perspectives and experiences from a variety of bloggers. From tantalising erotica to real-life escapades, from a professional perspective to a bedroom-only, from sex toy to book reviews, E-Lust has something for everyone!
Thoughts On
Kink & D/s
Male Chastity: Everything You Need to Know
Sex & Relationships
Sexy things that are really NOT that sexy!
Erotica
Fiction
Red Rose – first chapter of MIRROR SECRET MIRROR
Behind the Lens: A Tale of Intimacy and Artistry
Non-Fiction
Cock Sucking – An Oral Fixation
Sex Work and Sex Toy Reviews
Product Reviews
Funzze Remote Control Dual Stim Vibe
TOY TEST – PinkPunch PEACHU Clit Sucker
B-Vibe Trio Rechargeable Butt Plug Review
Harrow Bulb Depth Trainer From John Thomas Toys Review
Sex Work
A Duo with Ruth and Her Habibi
Why do we Need a Search Engine for Independent Sex Worker Websites?
Other Topics
State of the World
Is It Time to Reevaluate Our Spending on Pleasure and Entertainment?
Books and Movies
Writing about Writing
Adventures in Writing: Learning Lessons from Three Regrets of my Writing Life
Poetry
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The Difference Between ‘Kink’ and ‘Fetish’
The words ‘kink’ and ‘fetish’ are often used synonymously. They are however quite distinct. To give you the Cliff Notes – most kinks aren’t fetishes, but fetishes are kinks. When [...]
RIP ‘Gentle Femdom’, An Outdated Term
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Making Him Ask for Punishment
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24/7 TPE: A Helpful Definition
24/7 TPE is often misunderstood, so here's a helpful definition. '24/7' refers to a dynamic with no 'off' switch. 'TPE' refers to the extent of control.