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Thoughts of a Lifestyle Domme

I'm a lifestyle domme. These are my thoughts. /fin

Okay, but somewhat more seriously, dominance has been a part of me for as long as I can remember. Long before I really knew what it was. I pursued D/s as soon as I could and now have a 24/7 TPE dynamic . Over the years, I've written articles, guides, created resources and other bits and put them in one place. And you've found it.

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The Distance from the Pedestal

December 15, 2018
Given the height of the pedestal we dommes are put on by the sycophantic hoards, it's no wonder we get a little cold. 

Male Submission Is Not Weakness

December 22, 2018
The link bewteen submission and weakness has always been present, and the increasing emphasis on ultimate personal autonomy has only strengthened that idea.

Why ‘Force Me To Submit’ Can Be A Red Flag

September 19, 2021
‘I need someone to force me to submit’ is yet another sentiment which shows up in my inbox surprisingly often. It has rubbed me the wrong way for as long as I can remember, but I couldn’t put my finger on why. After all, the rhetoric of force weaves itself [...]
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Snapshot of My Dynamic: Sunday Afternoon Reading

May 19, 2022
I often get asked what a 24/7 TPE dynamic looks like. While there are, of course, times I subject my sub to various brilliantly sadistic torments, the majority of time we spend in space does not look like that that at all. For one thing, inflicting pain on someone is tiring. [...]
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Accepting Sadism: Separating Hurt & Harm

June 16, 2023
Separating hurt and harm is crucial to understanding sadism. If you're curious about how sadism works, or if you're struggling to reconcile your own sadistic inclinations, have a read.
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Why Lifestyle D/s?

May 8, 2023
What does being a lifestyle domme mean and why do I have a 24/7 TPE dynamic? Here's the very post to answer those questions.
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