Making Him Ask for Punishment
Here’s a psychological experiment from fairly early on in our dynamic. ‘Turn your head,’ I said. He stared at me, side eyed and unmoving. I eyed him with mounting disapproval. [...]
E-Lust 164 – Punishment, Personality and Penises
Welcome to E-Lust – a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers punishment, how to approach a mistress, and some oddly specific facts about penises. Have a browse and see what takes your fancy.
Thoughts on…
Kink & D/s
Ten Things I Am Not – Kinky Edition
Effective Punishment for Subs: A Comprehensive Guide for D/s Dynamics
Sex & Relationships
Engaging With A Mistress – Never Compromise Your Personality & Get Your Energies In Check
5 Oddly Specific Penis Facts You Didn’t Know
Erotica
Fiction
My Buddy Blew Me While We Watched The Game
Non Fiction
Other Topics
Product reviews
New Tenga Puffy Soft Reusable Masturbators Review
Sex Work
Cross Dressing Threesome with Ellie and Nikita
The one about Financial Domination
Her: My first time with a woman
Krásná kurvička. A Trio of Duos
What is the Most Popular Sex Worker Name?
Books and Movies
TammyJo and Peter Discuss Bound (2015): The Celluloid Dungeon
Follow Me
Snapshot of My Dynamic: Sunday Afternoon Reading
I often get asked what a 24/7 TPE dynamic looks like. While there are, of course, times I subject my sub to various brilliantly sadistic torments, the majority of time [...]
Why ‘Force Me To Submit’ Can Be A Red Flag
‘I need someone to force me to submit’ is yet another sentiment which shows up in my inbox surprisingly often. It has rubbed me the wrong way for as long [...]
RIP ‘Gentle Femdom’, An Outdated Term
'Gentle femdom' forces another false dichotomy on female dominance. Here's why we should let the label 'gentle femdom' rest in peace.
Punishment vs Funishment – An Important Distinction
Distinguishing punishment vs funishment is not just semantics. It's central to clear communication on a topic which is the backbone of power exchange dynamics.