24/7 TPE: A Helpful Definition
24/7 TPE is often misunderstood, so here's a helpful definition. '24/7' refers to a dynamic with no 'off' switch. 'TPE' refers to the extent of control.
E-Lust 166 – Chastity, Multi-Orgasmic Men and AI
Welcome to E-Lust – a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers why male chastity is not a femdom essential, male multiple orgasms and Bloom’s AI. Have a browse and see what takes your fancy.
Thoughts on…
Kink & D/s
Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom/Male Sub Principles
Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential
Erotic Non Fiction
Sex & Relationships
How to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man
Get Popping: The Hot New Pleasure Trend
Wild Monogamy: interview with Mali Apple
Erotica
Other Topics
Writing about writing
Abundant Gratitude for Generosity and Grit
Sex Work
Wiggly Worm the Cuckold. Duo With Sylvie
Interview with Mike Stabile from Free Speech Coalition
Fly Me To You. Police Role-Play in Dublin
Product Reviews
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Maintenance Spanking: Why & How To Add It To Your Relationship
A quick guide, covering the FAQs around maintenance spanking in D/s dynamics, including protocols, intensity levels, how to distinguish maintenance and punishment discipline and practical troubleshooting.
Jonah Hill, Boundaries, and ‘Being Controlling’ in a D/s Context
A quick topical write up of a conversation I had with a friend about Jonah Hill, boundaries and what it means to be controlling.
‘What appeals to you about being a domme?’
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Snapshot of My Dynamic: Sunday Afternoon Reading
I often get asked what a 24/7 TPE dynamic looks like. While there are, of course, times I subject my sub to various brilliantly sadistic torments, the majority of time [...]