How to Write a Great Opening Message to a Domme
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Tips for Writing a Great Femdom Personal Ad
Check out this handy guide by JurisprudentMoll on how to write great online personal ads.
E-Lust 163 – Sadism, Sex Rooms and Steamy Skills for Dirty Talk
Welcome to E-Lust - a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Among many delicious and pervy things, this month's E-Lust covers sadism, sex room décor…
Jonah Hill, Boundaries, and ‘Being Controlling’ in a D/s Context
A quick topical write up of a conversation I had with a friend about Jonah Hill, boundaries and what it means to be controlling.
Snapshot of My Dynamic: Latex Shopping
A snapshot of my dynamic: our little shopping trip to a Soho latex store, the purchase of a catsuit, and my thoughts on latex.
Accepting Sadism: Separating Hurt & Harm
Separating hurt and harm is crucial to understanding sadism. If you're curious about how sadism works, or if you're struggling to reconcile your own sadistic inclinations, have a read.
Welcome to E-Lust 162 – Protocol, Phone Sex & P-Spot Probe
Welcome to E-Lust - a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Dive into a diverse set of perspectives and experiences from a variety of bloggers.…
Why Submission Is Not A Gift
'Submission is a gift' is more than just a poor analogy - it fundamentally misrepresents the foundations of D/s . Here's why it's high time to consign this tired trope…
How To Set Effective Protocol in a 24/7 Dynamic
A pragmatic guide on crafting life-proof protocol - whether you're a newcomer or an experienced pro, these tips should help you design protocol which sticks!
E-Lust 161 – Lifestyle D/s, Chastity and Adventures in Writing
Welcome to E-Lust – a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers lifestyle D/s, a guide…